If you say "I miss you sooo much" to your boyfriend, and he only said "ok", or maybe no respond at all, it doesn't mean he did not miss you. He just want you to be strong.
If you said you miss him and you want to meet him and he said "be patient" or "not today" or "I'm busy", it doesn't mean he doesn't want to meet you. He just want to find a perfect time or a perfect day to spend a good time with you.
If today is your graduation day and u expect a call or a message from him, but he did not call or message you, it doesn't mean he forgot. He just want to congratulate you personally.
If you call him and he did not answer your call, it doesn't mean he doesn't want to answer. He maybe doing some important thing and he is sooo busy. Actually, he is dying to answer your call.
If you call him and he is not answering and he is disappear from you for a while, it doesn't mean he want to go away from you. He maybe stress with his job and want a little space for himself to solve his problems. He doesn't want to burden you with his problems.
If he said you cannot do this, you cannot do that, you cannot go here, you cannot go there, you cannot wear this, you cannot wear that, he is not controlling you. He just concern with your safety and he want everything perfect for you. He doesn't want you to make a mistake.
If he said he doesn't want to be disturb and you do as he said, he really appreciate it.
Finally, if you said you love him very much and you love him with all your heart, and he look like he doesn't care, actually he did. He really care. He truly love you more than you can imagine. In fact, he love you more than you love him.
If you said you miss him and you want to meet him and he said "be patient" or "not today" or "I'm busy", it doesn't mean he doesn't want to meet you. He just want to find a perfect time or a perfect day to spend a good time with you.
If today is your graduation day and u expect a call or a message from him, but he did not call or message you, it doesn't mean he forgot. He just want to congratulate you personally.
If you call him and he did not answer your call, it doesn't mean he doesn't want to answer. He maybe doing some important thing and he is sooo busy. Actually, he is dying to answer your call.
If you call him and he is not answering and he is disappear from you for a while, it doesn't mean he want to go away from you. He maybe stress with his job and want a little space for himself to solve his problems. He doesn't want to burden you with his problems.
If he said you cannot do this, you cannot do that, you cannot go here, you cannot go there, you cannot wear this, you cannot wear that, he is not controlling you. He just concern with your safety and he want everything perfect for you. He doesn't want you to make a mistake.
If he said he doesn't want to be disturb and you do as he said, he really appreciate it.
Finally, if you said you love him very much and you love him with all your heart, and he look like he doesn't care, actually he did. He really care. He truly love you more than you can imagine. In fact, he love you more than you love him.
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4 orang bisik-bisik:
but what if the guy himself doesnt sure wht to do although the girl has show her love?
that one kena tnya dlm diri that guy tu sendiri. is he really love the girl?
nicely written....
high level of relationship maturity
or was it forced acceptance of reality?
thanks.. :)
erm.. high level of relationship maturity :D